Thursday, April 30, 2009

Break-ups

For all of time girls have been thrown-off by inconsiderate, surprise break-ups, leaving them crying and wondering 'WTF?!' at the same time. In my opinion, if two people have been out more than a few times, the woman (in this case let's assume it's the woman being dumped) deserves at the very least, a phone call, if not an in-person break-up. A favourite memory of mine is being dumped via text. 'Things just aren't working out' after 3 months of exclusive dating just isn't cool. A friend was dumped via MSN...which may or may not be worse than text. To me, it seems worse because it's not only impersonal, but totally reminiscent of the relationships I had in Grade 10. Remember those seemingly intense talks you'd have over MSN but when you saw each other the guy would be totally clammed up??
Either way, guys who don't give girls the closure and respect that they deserve suck. However, the good thing about these situations is that it's much easier to be mad, thinking 'WTF' and 'What a loser!', than it is to be sad.

1 comment:

  1. In grade nine Ben told me for the first time that he loved me on MSN, and the next day he couldn't make eye contact... glad to know it wasn't just me deciphering mixed messages back in high school.

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