What Do You Really Want?

If you're going to tell a guy that you're just up for having fun or want a booty call, you better mean it. I think too many girls try to be 'cool girls' by acting as if they don't want a relationship and are totally fine with a casual fling. Sometimes we may even think that it's true, and it might be the case. The issue comes when girls say things like "I'm just looking for fun" because they're trying to go with the flow, don't want to push the guy to commit, or they want to seem ultra cool, and they really do want a relationship. Be sure that if you are going to make comments like this to a guy, you mean it, because he'll believe you. He might even want a relationship but assumes that you don't. I believe that this is why you see a guy get serious with someone immediately after ending an ultra-casual, 'will not commit' relationship.