When you start dating someone, it's important to be honest with yourself about how you feel, if you're happy and most importantly, are you ALWAYS initiating things? This is especially true today where technology plays such a huge part in dating. Are you the one sending all the texts? If you have something like an iPhone that shows the entire text history every time you send a message, it's easy to see who sends the majority of texts. Are there 4 of yours for every one of his two-word texts? Are his texts always responses to your questions and nothing else? Who suggests getting together, or sends the 'thank you' message after the date?
It's always hard to admit to yourself that your guy is not showing much enthusiasm. But it's so much better to admit this to yourself early on, than have someone else tell you, or worse, your guy show you, three months down the line.
Personally, from my experiences, I've found that it's the great relationships that this is never an issue. You've never had to keep score. If you are, chances are, your working too hard at it and maybe it's not worth your effort.
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