The worst situation to be in, in my mind, is to be that girl who is pestering a guy. Can you imagine the guy you're dating/seeing/liking from afar looking at his phone the next time you text saying "oh jeez, there's ______ again". I can just picture it now - he's out for wings with his friends, and instead of telling them about how wonderful, fun and independent you are, he's sharing your 'could be construed as clingy' text messages.
I'm not a proponent of game-playing, but try to keep the tables balanced when it comes to messaging, calling, and all forms of communication. Sometimes there are reasons he's not responding right away - he could be legitimately busy in which case he needs his space. And if it's not legit, he doesn't deserve your time anyway. Just something to keep in mind before you hit send on that 4th straight message.
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