The downside to having a thoughtful, romantic BF (there's a downside? you ask) may be that expectations are set too high. After several romantic gestures - be it coffee drop-offs at work, flower deliveries or surprising you with a clean apartment, it's really hard not to come to expect these things. So when you come home after a long day of work and the dishes are still in the sink, don't forget to remind yourself that those are 'special signs of how much he cares' and not every day duties or responsibilities.
Should you set your expectations low? No way - but there's a definite difference between expectations of respect and commitment vs. 24/7 catering to your every whim. If that does happen in your relationship though, please let me know where you found him!
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