Qualifications

Funny that depending on what relationship someone has with your BF, it really changes their judgement on you as a GF. Apparently my BF's mom believes a good girlfriend cooks a lot (not my strong suit), but other mothers might want to know I'm financially secure and stable. I'm quite sure that a guy's friends judge mostly on how hot a girl is (aka big her chest is?), and if they're a fun time when out drinking. Female friends of a BF probably judge my qualifications based on how nice I am or maybe just my fashion sense. You can never can't please everyone - and as long as you and your BF is happy, that is all that should matter.